I was reading this morning in one of my all-time favorite devotionals, Streams in the Desert, by L.B. Cowman, and was so touched by the words of a song printed there. I don’t recall reading it before, but maybe it just wasn’t meaningful to me when I did.
Now it reveals heart truth to me. And I realize again how every generation struggles through these changes. Every family will at some point have a Christmas that echoes with the memory of those no longer there. For some of us, we are missing loved ones, even while they are still with us in body.
And whether we are missing our dear ones in spirit or in actuality, all of the traditions stir memories of more joyful days.
We are not alone. Every generation has been here before us. And many are struggling alongside us now. Jesus knows. He is our comfort. He brings “holy gladness still”.
And the story has a happy ending for all who believe in Him. One day all who trust in Jesus will be singing together again, and there will be no tears to hide…
Bells Across the Snow
O Christmas, merry Christmas!
Is it really come again,
With its memories and greetings,
With its joy and with its pain?
There’s a minor in the carol,
And a shadow in the light,
And a spray of cypress twining
With the holly wreath to-night.
And the hush is never broken
By laughter light and low,
As we listen in the starlight
To the “bells across the snow.”
O Christmas, merry Christmas!
‘Tis not so very long
Since other voices blended
With the carol and the song!
If we could but hear them singing
As they are singing now,
If we could but see the radiance
Of the crown on each dear brow;
There would be no sigh to smother,
No hidden tear to flow,
As we listen in the starlight
To the “bells across the snow.”
O Christmas, merry Christmas!
This never more can be;
We cannot bring again the days
Of our unshadowed glee.
But Christmas, happy Christmas,
Sweet herald of good-will,
With holy songs of glory
Brings holy gladness still.
For peace and hope may brighten,
And patient love may glow,
As we listen in the starlight
To the “bells across the snow.”
by Frances Ridley Havergal (1836-1879) Public Domain

Such a beautiful song! I wrote this:
If You Mourn
It’s Christmas Eve.
If you mourn today I pray for
Courage and peace and
Hope for you.
I pray for love and
Strength and
Moments of joy for you.
I pray for comfort and healing and
Faith for you to believe that
Despite the sorrow you feel now,
One day the grief will ease and
You will be able to enjoy
Christmas again.
It was true for me.
Beautiful! Thank you for sharing!